Last evening the writer of Intelligent by Design phoned and, in the course of a very long conversation, pointed out that fear is a common element on both sides of the political divide this election. I argued that my fears of voter suppression, and potential vote count irregularities were rational fears while I believed the fears of Sen. Obama as “other” were irrational as well as unwarranted. But IBD reminded me that the other side may well view their fears as rational and mine as irrational. Hmmmmm.
I hadn’t thought about it like that. So, back I went to the drawing board in my mind. Darn, I wish I hadn’t given away the great book I used to have about non-violent conflict resolution!. But the take-away idea was one very similar to one of Steve Covey’s 7 Habits — “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” Wise words.
Then this morning, as I was doing my usual morning blog survey, I happened across a link to a new-to-me blog called Opinion Streams. For those of you who may still be trying to reach conservative Christian friends, this post may help. Given the video that has surfaced on You Tube and elsewhere of some of McCain and Palin’s supporters, I was dispairing of how we might knit our nation back together. After seeing the comments to his post, most of which were sympathetic, and the blogger’s patient and rational responses to those which were not, I am feeling a bit more hopeful. He is but one more in an entire series of thinking conservatives who are supporting Barack Obama.
I’ve written of the coming struggle for control of the Republican Party. The Democrats have gone through similar periods when the coalition has faltered and re-formed itself. Political parties, while decried by the founders, have been a part of American politics from the beginning, and individual ones have come and gone or morphed or evolved as conditions warranted. Often that happens when one wing of a party is feeling strong enough (or vocal enough) to assert itself beyond its numbers. Most often those internecine battles occur after the mood of the country changes and the majority party becomes the minority one.
Whether or not the Republican Party succumbs to control by the one or two issue social conservatives, there are still thinking people among conservative Christians and conservatives at large, and I should have remembered people like Jim Wallis. While Wallis is an evangelical Christian, his political views on most issues do not coincide with what we, or at least I tend to think of as conservative Christians. IBD’s post on the problematic nature of labels is worth reading and considering.
Whether we use conservative or progressive theological or even use secular vocabulary to describe our values, we all have values. And we vote our values. Some of us value one or two positions above all while others of us look across the range of our values and decide which candidate best represents our vision of what this country could and should be.
And as I thought both about the fear and hatred coming from some of the McCain-Palin supporters, I wondered if perhaps what they needed was for someone to listen to them. Not sure I’m ready to tackle that assignment with the more rabid of that contingent, mostly because I fear I’d have a hard time listening to the entire tirade until the person finally ran out of anger, but it would be an interesting experiment. Is that what Jesus meant by “resist not evil?” If someone actively listens to the emotions spill out rather than trying to talk them down, might a rational calm conversation on the might be possible in the end?